Why can't we have the connection and understanding

Why is it so hard to make an connection and understanding between a lovely couple,partner?

Don't you know your partner always want the best for you,and think for you. Their suggestion may be not what you want or like,but it doesn't mean it was not for your own good. Can't you try to see from him/her point of view,try to understand them cos they won't make suggestion just to make you unhappy or just to cause a fight between you both. It must have it own reason,so try to see "The Point" understand it.

I understand all the problem you told me,i understand but doesn't mean you can do it your way without considering your partner's feeling.Once you have made a commitment to be with her/him,u should walk the journey with each other idea, advice, suggestion, consider each other feeling in every step you going to take or do.

I know you been through a lot unhappy moments with your friend, but let me help you, cos i love you. I know 'World without friends is meaningless', but you have to make an balancing there between your friends and your partner...

Try to talk to each other and really accept each other point of view with open heart,not just said we dont understand,or there's nothing you can do.I care what you care cos I love you.
Couple need to make an understanding between each other,not just hope we understand without putting effort,at least have a good talk to each other and let it out,try to make an agreement
there.

I really worried of you,but you just don't care, and tell me there's nothing to worried. You made me sad..sad that why we just can't agree on the same point,u always will have your"Point" that i have to understand,but u don't understand my.

Hope we can have an improvement soon..I love you.

To all others couple,
May you have a great understanding on each other Point.